[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : I think I might have romantic feelings towards my best friend but I'm not sure?

Here is the deal: we're both twenty and in college. we also went to middle and high school together. we always hung out in the same friend group and our parents are friends so we carpooled a lot and knew each other pretty well before university he had a serious girlfriend for all of high school, though, so we didn't spend time hanging out one on one besides the car rides. he broke up with this girl once he got to college and we started hanging out all the time. our friendship is very platonic. he has admitted that he finds me attractive and that he had a crush on me in eighth grade and then later at the very beginning of our freshman year of college (we're juniors now) but we laugh about it now. i'm not attracted to him at all. i wish i was, because he's my favorite person to be around. it's weird if we go more than a few days without seeing each other the one reason i feel like i might have feelings for him is because sometimes i think about what will happen when college is over, and it makes me sad to think that our lives will probably take us in different directions and i won't get to see him everyday anymore. and that somewhere even further down the line we will most likely end up with other people long term, who probably won't be understanding of the deep connection we have. but even though i feel this way about him and i do love him as a friend if nothing else i cannot imagine being intimate with him whatsoever. what do i do? i also feel like dating him would change the dynamic of the friendship we have and i like our current dynamic. but i also am aware that our current dynamic isn't sustainable long term. like, we can't be thirty years old and living in the same area seeing each other every day. especially if we have other SO's in our lives.

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