[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : How can i get my boyfriend to talk to me about why he wont touch me for my own pleasure?

He wont touch my vagina with his hands or mouth though i do it for him. I dont just do it for him, i have done things throught my adult life like read books and attend workshops and take massage classes so that I am very good in that department to make my partner feel good. Making my parner feel good makes me feel good. He seems to have zero interest in making me feel good with anything other than his penis. He wont even do something like rub my neck. He wont talk about why either... and i bring it up a lot. in the past has given some reasons why like hes afraid of getting me pregnant from *** being on his hands but ive since gone on birth control and he still wont do it. we had a little fight tonight. we both have a cold and were laying in bed.. he moved my hand onto his penis and i pulled it away saing "I dont want to right now"... he kept insisting and then got upset and turned his back to me. I tried to put my arm around him and he threw it off saying "Thats a part of me and if you wont touch it then you wont touch me". I just left. even things like caresses when youre just laying in bed together... he will ask me to scratch him and i do for a long time then when i ask him to reciprocate he wont do it. Resentment is growing.

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