[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : He ghosted me after dating for 4 months? *Updated*?

Hey everyone! The guy I am seeing is 37 (he's divorced/has one child/ in debt) and I am 22 (grad student, no debt!) , we've been dating for 4 months (known each other for 2 years, I have met his friends, partners, and son) day trips, dates, talks about the future (no sex). I sent him a kind message saying "I am sorry if I made him upset on Friday ( the argument was MINOR)... And he ghosted me today, I am so hurt... Please any advice to help me with this pain.. He responded to my apology (to a situation where I literally told him its rude to only respond to some of my paragraphs) with, "It’s ok and thank you for your words. As you can tell, I do not respond well to rash judgments and this was not the first time. I’ve been through relationships that that was commonplace and I have no time for it..I hope it’s been a great Sunday for you" ..He completely turned the situation around of me! Mind you I am a kind, sweet person, yes I can be sassy, but I am very respectful... Is this gaslighting? 

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