[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : What is it, why can't i officially have a girlfriend and not blow up within a few weeks?

i am sorry i am a little shallow,i like a lady who is fit and pretty in the outside but also as beautiful in the inside as equally important,i can get a girl but i can't maintain her for some reason they end up secretly dating someone else or get boring. i have done everything they said i should do t.they said get a job so i joined the military, they said girls like guys who have a car well I bought that to, they said have aspirations well im doing online college to have a good job as a cop after and gym to be productive, they say you should have a personality well i forced myself to be more outgoing than reserve .im not a bad person and im not going to be an jerl just cause they say thats what they go for i have beliefs I stick and if i see a girl i like in public I don't want to make it awkward doing a move but if she says no i feel like its the end of the world yet i know it isn't but rejection to me hurts more than anything, im 22 years old and im trying to do the best in life that i can but at the same time im tired of being lonely ,really have been all my life, all my dates have failed and it's really not all my fault to say,what can i do or should do...tinder sucks ,they match but never end up replying

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